NEXT GEN MINISTRY
SEXUAL ABUSE AWARENESS AND TRAINING
As a leader in our Next Gen Ministry, you are a trusted adult in the lives of kids and teenagers.This guide equips you to recognize, respond to, and report suspected sexual abuse in a way that honors the law and protects those in our ministry.
Know the STATS
The stats in our country of child sexual abuse help us understand how important this issue is and how big of a problem it has become. To help fight against it, we must know the stats…
• 1 in every 4 females will encounter sexual abuse by the time they are 18. 1 in every 6 males will encounter sexual abuse by the time they are 18.
• The average convicted male abuser who molested boys will average 150 victims before their first criminal prosecution. The convicted male abusers who molested girls will average 52 victims before their first criminal prosecution.
• The average age of first offense of a male abuser is 13 years old.
• 90% of sexual abuse cases involve an abuser that the victim knows and trusts.
• 1 in every 3 reported cases of child sexual abuse are peer to peer issues.
• Less than 10% of sexual abusers will encounter the criminal justice system, so a background check isn’t enough to protect against sexual abuse.
Know the Law
• Mandatory Reporting:
As a ministry leader, you are considered a mandated reporter. As a ministry, we are legally required to report any suspicion of child abuse or neglect for those under the age of 18 — we do not need proof.
• Timeframe:
Reports must be made immediately (within 24 hours) to the appropriate agency or law enforcement.
• Who to Report To:
◦ Your Ministry Coach, who will then report it to our Ministry Staff.
◦ Our Ministry Staff will call Child Protective Services (CPS) or local law enforcement
◦ Do not investigate yourself or confront the suspected abuser.
What to Watch For in victims
• Behavioral Signs:
◦ Sudden withdrawal, anxiety, fear of certain people or places
◦ Unusual sexual knowledge or behavior for age
◦ Reluctance to go home, frequent absences, or running away
◦ Lack of interest in things they used to enjoy
◦ Dramatic decrease in academic performance
◦ Depression, self-harm, substance use
• Physical Signs:
◦ Injuries or complaints related to genitals
◦ Trouble sitting or walking
◦ Sudden changes in hygiene or appearance
What to Watch For in abusers
• Behavioral Signs:
◦ Excessive interest in kids/students. These individuals may want to always be with
them or engage in their activities.
◦ Have inappropriate boundaries with kids/ students, such as invading personal
space or engaging in inappropriate touching.
◦ Show grooming behaviors such as giving excessive gifts, providing special attention,
or exploiting vulnerabilities.
◦ Avoid open communication or transparency with parents or authorities
◦ Seek to be alone with a kid/student. They may also try to frequently isolate a kid/
student from their family or peers.
If a KID or Student Discloses to You
1. Stay Calm & Listen Carefully
◦ Use a calm, non-judgmental tone
◦ Don’t pressure for details
◦ Believe them — your response matters
2. Say These Things:
◦ “I’m really glad you told me.”
◦ “This is not your fault.”
◦ “I have to tell someone whose job is to help.”
3. Don’t Say:
◦ “Are you sure?”
◦ “Why didn’t you tell someone sooner?”
◦ “Don’t worry — I won’t tell anyone.”
Next Steps for You
• Document the Conversation
Write down exact statements the individual made
• Report this to your Coach
Your Coach is always your go-to for help, next steps, etc. They will gather the information and pass it along to the ministry staff who will take the appropriate next steps, including making an official report with state and local authorities.
Final Reminders
• You’re not alone — your ministry team and church leadership will walk with you.
• Reporting protects the individual, the church, and you.
• Trust your instincts. If something feels wrong, say something.